Yesternight, me and the hubby had a very long conversation about our milestone. Im proud to say that at this young age, we have achieved a lot of things and pretty much settled down. We are more or less secured a proper base for our future. Alhamdulillah, we have secured a proper abode (that will be fully furnished insyaallah by 2014 or maybe earlier), job and a perfect family i can call on my own.

Many of our friends does not understand when we said we are financially tight. Many remarks have been given as if we are not prepared when we wanted to get married at an early age. Truth to be told, you guys just dont understand. It's not a mistake to get married early, it's not a mistake for me to get pregnant right after we are married and it's not even a mistake when we purchased a flat.

Before we are married, we have already mentally prepared of all the things that are going to cost us. By saying we are financially tight, doesnt mean that we have no savings or money. We still get to dine at a posh restaurant and splurge once in a while. By financially tight, what we meant was we do not want to spend our money unnecessarily as the money that we have is going to be spend to something that is gonna secure us a better future.

How many of you can save let's say $500 per month consistently? Some people cant even set aside $10 per month ok. Trust me it's hard but when you've got hold of it, im sure you can manage it. Nothing is impossible. Me and hubby are not like some typical M&Ms who got married early but does not plan for the future. We aretotally opposite from them.

Who says i dont have the urge to spend? Hey, im still young and i also wants my wardrobe to be filled with updated clothes. But who cares now? I dont even care whether my clothes are outdated or something. What i want now is to save as much as i can for our future house, medical bills, child and insyaallah a yearly trip with my family. Isn't that just great? Both the hubby and me targeted about 5-6 years before we can finally enjoy fully without having to think so much.

We'd rather scrimp and save now than having to suffer in the future. At least by the time the flat is fully furnished, i'll be 26-27 years old. While others starts to crack their head to save for weddings and house, i'll be enjoying my life with the hubby and child insyaallah. By that time, can i smirk at all of you who is currently always giving negative comments and remarks to us young couples? cause while we have secured so much things at a young age, you guys just started to build sandcastle.

Ok, i sounded so snobbish but it's kind of irritating and it hurts when you guys just dont understand our sacrifices. Not all young couples couldnt make it through the end. We have vision too and we want everything to be as perfect as we can be.